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Within the guidelines of halacha as presented by chazal and early rabbinic authorities, Oral-vulvar stimulation in Halacha (also known as נשיקת אותו מקום lit. "kissing of that place") is the discussion of whether or not a man may orally stimulate his wife's vulva (cunnilingus) independent of whether this stimulation does or does not result in her achieving orgasm. The discussion is within the exclusive framework of a halachically permitted marital relationship and only during the time that one's wife is not in her Niddah state. ==Chazalic views== (詳細はTalmud Bavli (nedarim p. 20a) quotes the majority of rabbis (who disagree with the fringe view of Yohanan Ben Dahabai) who are lenient by stating that "all that man desires to do with his wife he may" (provided she agrees〔Nedarim 20b〕). The talmud goes on to bring a parable of a man who makes a meat or fish purchase, that he may cook his purchase in that way he desires. In a varying text of kallah rabthi as printed in "battei medrashoth"〔of the cairo geniza: http://www.hebrewbooks.org/21179 vol. 1 p. 229〕 Rabbi Werthheimer notes the significance of the Talmud quoting both meat and fish in its parable; Since the Torah forbids cooking one's meat in milk, a parable quoting just meat would not suffice as meat has this restrictive element whereas fish has a lesser restrictive element, thus implying that man has an enhanced level of (sexual) freedom with his wife. The Rambam takes a somewhat lenient approach that permits oral-vulvar stimulation but at the same time discourages its actual practice〔Rambam mishna commentary to tractate sanhedrin 7:4 ( ..כל מה שרוצה לעשות באשתו עושה לפי שהענין..האסור והמותר אינן בענין המרוחק והשנוא והמרוצה והאהוב ומה שראוי לעשות מדרך הצניעות ותכלית הפרישות), עצי ארזים to shulchan aruch (Rabbi Noach Berlin, 5550) even haezer 25:1. "ba'athi legani", A. Arbel, published 5771〕 抄文引用元・出典: フリー百科事典『 ウィキペディア（Wikipedia）』 ■ウィキペディアで「Cunnilingus in Halacha」の詳細全文を読む スポンサード リンク
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